I've delayed responding to this thread because the thought of trying to put it all into words (yeah, I know--that's what writers are supposed to be good at) seemed overwhelming. It still does. So I'll mention just a few.
I discovered Verla's forum in 2005. One of the most concrete things I gained from the interactions here was an introduction to children's magazine writing. Before that, I'd had a few publications in professional journals, but I knew almost nothing about the children's magazine market. Reading about other writers' experiences inspired and challenged me to try it. More than 150 acceptances later, I can definitely say that my knowledge level has grown. I have to give credit to places like KMW and ICL's website also, but I found out about those places because of the Blue Board.
I've also learned a lot about writing and targeting submissions for pbs. Not that I've had any yeses in that area yet, but I've definitely improved my chances.
More important to me than either of these, however, are the friendships I've made here. Wonderful, caring friends who understand about the ups and downs of this writing life. Wonderful, caring friends who encourage me and help me grow as a writer. Wonderful, caring friends who are there for me when I need someone--who weep with me when I weep or rejoice with me when I rejoice.
Thank you, Verla!! I hope you realize how much you're appreciated. And thank you, all of you who participate here, helping to make it a wonderful community.